There is a HUGE amount of science regarding the area of communication in relationship. Everything from physiology and hormones to the science that shows the very palpable difference between Men and Women’s communication STYLES, all have a BIG impact.
On a very deep level, you like to understand how something works. It gives you more satisfaction, inspiration and hope knowing that you don’t have to take something at face value or re-invent the wheel … that someone has already taken a close look to PROVE what works and what doesn’t work.
When you are able to see something from multiple perspectives you are able to see the whole picture. This helps you problem solve with everyone’s needs and wants in mind. You get a better idea of why you have the results you have and exactly what you have to do to create a new result.
There is a saying that knowledge is power. This is false. The truth is, knowledge implemented, is power. Action is what takes you from where you are to where you want to go. Action is what helps you to make progress. Stop guessing. Implement the exact actions that will make the most difference to produce the result you want.
Knowing what you are responsible for and taking appropriate actions based on that will keep you out of blame. Learn how to respond rather than be reactive.
What is “clean” communication? In short, it’s communication that is free of blame and make wrong. It seeks solutions, rather than seeking to be right. It’s not just about what you say, however. Listening is an equally important communication skill. Clean listening is listening with the intention of understanding your partner. It’s listening for the best in him or her.
As you apply the “5 PILLARS of SPARK” to who you are as human beings and to the dynamics that go on Between Men and Women, your new Communication Skills will empower you to know what to do when you get “stuck”, and how to make being stuck a much less frequent occurrence. When you “get” SPARK, you will get:
“I have no idea how a couple functions without them having done this program….It’s made a huge difference in my life.”
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