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How to Fix the No. 1 Cause of Arguments in Marriage

Here’s what you have to do to fix one of, if not THE, leading underlying cause of arguments in marriages and relationships. Understanding this single, yet critical element can make a huge difference. So here it is… Men and women think differently. We say we know this, but when push comes to shove, we wonder …

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To Understand Women, Try This

Understanding women is a laudable, though near impossible goal for men in relationship. There’s nothing wrong with this. It’s just how it is. It’s one of those cosmic jokes that keeps life and relationships interesting. You see, men and women operate with different forms of logic. Or more accurately, men and women both have access …

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Do You Practice this Closely-Guarded Secret to Transforming Your Marriage?

This one trick can transform your relationship or marriage, once you commit to it. Like a caterpillar transforming into a butterfly, this secret can “shapeshift” your relationship from what it is to what you know is possible. The best part is that you are 100% in control, so success is guaranteed if you are committed to …

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Avoiding this Naughty ‘J’ Word Keeps Her Shining Brightly in Relationship

The video at the bottom of the page highlights a key activity that can turn a woman’s “light” out and prevent her from sprinkling her magic in her marriage and the world. What is it? Judgement. In the absence of judgement…when a woman is free to be who she is, to feel how she feels and to …

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How to Find the Ease and Comedy in Relationship

At the start of this past weekend’s Between Men and Women Couples Relationship Retreat we asked participants their goals for the weekend…what do they want for themselves and their relationship? One participant said, amongst other things, that she wanted “to get the comedy in it all”…just what is, free of drama and significance. I loved …

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The Power of Connection and Dedication in a Marriage

Can you imagine, over the course of a 67 year marriage, how many opportunities there would be to be positional about something? To be right and to have your partner be wrong? The longevity of this couple’s marriage, and of their enduring life-long commitment, was clearly not due to the absence of these opportunities. Over 67 years, all …

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Relationships and Well-Being, Understanding Men, Understanding Women, What Women Want

How to Create Connection and Intimacy this Valentine’s Day

Happy Valentine’s Day! Instead of just having a date, create connection and intimacy as well. Here’s one way. To Your Greatness!

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The Secret to a Long, Happy Marriage from a Quarter Centenarian Couple

25 years is a long time. Last weekend Donna and I went up to Edmonton to celebrate my brother and sister-in-law’s 25th wedding anniversary. Sean and Janet were high school sweethearts. They were married at 20 years old. They have two amazing kids. I have never heard Sean or Janet raise their voices to each other or to …

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When the Best Action Is No Action At All (Video)

“It’s Not About the Nail” Sometimes the “fix” is just in listening. It’s more important than most men realise, because it goes against a man’s natural tendency to fix through action. Women are all about connection, so often a man’s “win” with her is in listening and being present. Enjoy, and leave a comment below to …

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The Secret to Resurrecting the Sizzle Factor in Relationship

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to get back to how it was when you first got together? That sizzle…that energy…that excitement…that passion? And this isn’t just about sex. It’s not even mostly about sex. It’s about that way of being in life together. Re-establishing it can be especially difficult after being …

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